I am a certified Intimacy Coach with an international experience in helping women embrace the stages of their lives.
to achieve your goals
to work in a safe and conscious container
to work through resistance to change
This work is for you if you desire:
to compliment trauma work or to integrate sexual abuse
to process your emotions
to feel worthy and deserving
to learn self-love and body-love
to re-sensitize your body
to feel nourished, enlivened and empowered by your sexual energy
to learn to access higher states of consciousness
to discover sacred practices
No woman is broken. We were all born to experience love and belonging, joy and pleasure. We have within us an incredible and mostly untapped source of aliveness: our sexual energy. Time and again, I witness the joy and sense of personal power in women when they connect with their bodies and deepest selves, often for the first time in their lives.
I often start our work together with inner child integration. Even if you have done this kind of work before, we will take it to another level. People usually do not realize that the 'inner child' is our emotional body. We often function in our relationships from these wounded child pieces which still rule our adult life.
Transformation happens at our edge, and it takes courage because society has taught us to repress our uncomfortable emotions, such as shame, anger, guilt, judgement, fear, so we end up disconnected from and at war with parts of ourselves.
I do the opposite and teach you to sit with your emotions and negative patterns. They are pieces of consciousness, and to integrate them is the only way to feel whole.
Huge amounts of energy are used to drag around these repressed pieces. The more we reclaim and integrate them, the more energy is available for us to become real, alive, fluid and magnetic.
We all go through cycles of life / death / rebirth. Women are familiar with death in the form of menstruation, which is a time for letting go, for dying to our old selves and for preparing to be reborn in an endless flow which is graceful when we learn to accept and honour it.
After the menopause, these cycles, which follow the phases of the moon, still happen internally in a more energetic way. This energy is a vibrant source of empowerment when we know how to cultivate it.
Stressful experiences such as divorce can become a source of personal growth when you are shown how to alchemize your emotions and transform them into raw fuel for yourself. My approach is different from counselling or psycho-therapy: I do not need the story, I do not give advice; I work with the felt sensations that are associated with emotions.
I have observed how disconnected from their bodies most women are. Self-love comes with body-love and no-one teaches women how to do that. I even often see self-hatred in my clients, so learning to undo these conditionings is a super important part of our work together.
Energetic de-armoring of the delicate tissues of the body is essential for energy to start flowing again. Conventional love-making creates tension. It is not the men's fault, they only do as they have been taught, mostly by pornography. I teach women how their own bodies are made, how they function and to express their needs and desires in light and fun conversations with their partners.
De-armoring is also very healing when there has been sexual abuse. Trauma becomes stuck in the body and results in repeated patterns and blockages.
Transformation usually happens in gradual, subtle shifts. It is a beautiful process to witness. The testimonials below give an idea of what women experience during our sessions.
I tailor these sessions to your own individual needs. We can just work with your emotions or with transitioning through a period of your life (such as divorce or menopause) if this is what you need, or if you feel adventurous I can take you all the way to womb consciousness and, through more advanced practices, to the discovery of and the connection with the sacred, life-giving, creative energy in your sacral centre.
I use a holistic approach which combines an understanding of the different parts of the brain based on neuro-sciences, tools such as breathwork, sound and movement, as well as tantric and taoist practices.
I offer one-to-one coaching sessions either online or at my home practice in Sevenoaks and often end them with a gong bath in which you relax in the vibrations of my beautiful planetary gongs.
I also organise workshops for small groups of women.
Although I am a trauma-informed coach, I am not a trauma expert, and I might refer you to someone with qualifications in this field if this is what you need.
I just wanted to say Nathalie how grateful I am to be working with you. I feel so comfortable in your sessions and I haven't ever felt this before, and I've worked with incredible people with the right intentions and heart but their work wasn't as transformative as yours. You have truly changed my world.
T. - London
'I have never met anyone like you! Every time I come for a session with you I wonder what part of me I am going to uncover and connect with. I have never let myself be that relaxed with anyone before. You are a kind of shamanic woman with magical powers!'
D. - Kent
I felt completely held and extremely safe, and today I went to places I couldn't have predicted. I trust you and this allows me to open up to you.
P. - Amsterdam
'10 sessions over weekly appointments and I can't recommend it enough! I learnt so much about myself and how to deal with my reactions, anxiety, stress, emotions, and how to grow as an adult. My husband noticed a difference in me and I visually can see a difference as well. I feel like me again.'
L. - Kent
'Yesterday's session was powerful! Things have definitely shifted and as a result I am feeling much more in my power, lighter and free. I feel possibility, which is exciting! There is something magical about you.'
K. - Kent
"I feel our work together helped me develop a much better connection and loving relationship with myself, which I feel is the most important one. I still remember our first session together, at a time when I still felt guilty about self-care, I was very much afraid to live a life I wanted, and I can't believe how far I have come. There is still much work to be done of course, but I just wanted to express my sincere gratitude for the amazing work you put in and how much you helped me get to where I am now.'
M. - New York
'During our session yesterday I felt such trust in you, incredibly safe, very connected and held. You showed genuine interest and care for me and the process I was going through. I also loved your voice during the meditation and felt this was a perfect session.'
K. - London
'I want to pay you a great compliment. I know I am bigger than life and that I have a big personality, being a public figure in my country, and you handled me so well, respecting where I was going naturally. You are knowledgeable, easy-going, consistent. I loved our session together!'
A. - Austria
'I loved the structure of this first session and the way you paced it, with a good mix of talking and giving me space'
T. - Madrid
'I am feeling very lit up after our session today. You have a beautiful way of leading and guiding and reflecting back. I felt very held and you met me where I needed it.'
S. - Brisbane
'Your confidence and masterful approach to coaching made me feel very safe. I felt respected and heard all along'.
K. - Los Angeles
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